The general public is in love with Jennifer Lawrence these days and it’s
not at all surprising! This witty, beautiful and energetic actress is
something of a refreshment on a usually quite prude and boring Hollywood
scene. She brings entertainment to award shows where she doesn’t mind
tripping and falling when trying to go get her award. What you probably
didn’t know about Lawrence is that she became a star with zero acting
training! Here’s ten other unknown facts about JLaw that will blow your
mind.
Candy Smuggler
The Oscar winner is known to love food so she smuggles food to award shows to keep her spirits up. Her favourite? Laffy Taffys
Above Average
Lawrence finished high school two years before her generation with a 3.9 GPA in order to pursue her acting career.
Nitro
Jennifer was known as Nitro in high school because of her high energy levels.
Monk Mascot
One of Lawrence’s first roles was in the movie Monk where she played the lion mascot.
Rejections
Before landing the role of Katniss in Hunger Games, Jennifer auditioned for three major roles as Lisbeth Salander in The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo, Bella Swan in Twilight and Jules in Superbad.
Nobody conforms 100 percent to their social group. But a blanket view
can cover the pack’s traits in broad strokes. The “rich people” blanket
comes with odd beliefs and habits. From thinking that the poor are
happier than them to smoking their cigarettes differently, the world of
the wealthy is certainly not boring.
10-Rich Kids Are Higher-Risk For Drugs
There is a misconception that addiction is a mark of the poor. Drugs
and alcohol affect people from all backgrounds but affluent kids are
more at risk. One might be forgiven for questioning this. What do they
have to worry about? They have their ponies and large allowances.
Outsiders often assume a rich kid popping Ecstacy is acting out of
boredom. A 2017 study found that was not the case. The real reason is
sad and has devastating consequences.
For years, the researchers followed hundreds of students beginning
with their high school years. Each pupil had wealthy parents with a high
standing and their schools insisted on high achievements. As it turns
out, the pressure was too much. Drugs and binge drinking became a coping
mechanism. When they grew up and started their own lives, the pressure
vanished but not the drug use. It became worse. By age 26, their
addictions were three times higher than the national average.
9-They Are Less Giving
In 2018, a group played for real money. They gathered at a London
university and were divided into “higher status” and “lower status”
players. This reflected how much money each person received at the
game’s beginning.
The game had a simple goal. Each player donated money to a group
kitty. They were free to decide how much. After a round or two, the
money was split between everyone. A player’s wealth could grow either
through chance or hard work. Those who earned their money proved to be
the Scrooge McDucks of the group. They added the least.
Things were not as selfish as they appeared. The poor participants
had less to lose. Adding more money to the kitty was also their way of
encouraging the rich guys to do the same. This increased their chances
for a bigger return. However, the big fish refused to bite. They had
more to lose and those who earned their wealth had even less reason to
just give it away.
8-They Waste Cigarettes
In 2008, students in New Zealand collected evidence for a study. They
looked a little strange while doing so. The group visited six
neighborhoods in Wellington and picked up over 3,500 cigarette butts.
While the environment thanks them, the real aim was to see whether
income changes the way people smoke.
One type of cigarette showed the same thing, regardless of the suburb
it came from. Rich and poor smoked roll-your-owns down to the same
length. But cigarettes manufactured in factories or tailor-made for an
elite customer betrayed the income of the smokers.
The remaining tobacco was scooped from the butts and measured. Poorer
smokers, with less to spend, destroyed their cigarettes down to the
butt. On the other hand, the wealthier suburbs discarded their
cigarettes with 75 percent more unused tobacco.
7-They Are More Dishonest
The wealthy have special stalkers. These benign creepers are
psychologists and they have been following the rich for decades. The
reason? To see what privilege does to the human mind. The general view
is that it grooms people to enjoy the benefits of dishonesty.
Researchers took their notebooks to a busy intersection. The four-way
was governed by right-of-way. The team noted the model of the cars that
cut off other drivers. Road hogs appeared from both sides of the social
fence. But new, expensive vehicles were four times more likely to
ignore the fact that it was not their turn to drive. The researchers
then moved their gaggle to a crosswalk where pedestrians had the
right-of-way. Every cheap or old car stopped. Half of the expensive cars
ignored them. Technically, they broke a law. Drivers must stop for
people who want to cross.
Elsewhere, the statistics are even starker. The wealthy cheat more on
their spouses, their taxes and at games. They also have the moolah to
buy stuff but are more likely to shoplift.
6-Rich Women Choose Older Men
In the past, wealth was skewed in men’s favor. For this reason, women
chose providers and men placed more importance on attractive looks.
Both preferred a younger partner. As women become richer, they bring
their own financial security to the relationship. They no longer look to
men as providers but how good-looking they are. Moreover, they want
older men. This trend’s popularity even coined a name—the George Clooney
Effect.
This crushed the misconception that wealthy women act like men. In
other words, prefer a toyboy as a partner. This female shift also
changed how elite men like their women. According to a recent survey,
they prefer even younger girls than before.
5-Their Old Age Is Longer And Healthier
The best perk of wealth could be a longer life. Apart from seeing 100
years up close, the upper-class elderly also enjoy more years of being
physically independent. Scientists stumbled upon this surprising fact
when they compared the health of older adults in the US and England.
Both countries showed the same thing. After age 50, rich women could
expect 33 more disability-free years and 31 for men. They could cook for
themselves and get out of bed, things the poorest communities start
struggling with nine years earlier.
There are islands where people grow old without a fat bank account.
This proves that longevity is a complex cocktail of genes, attitude,
diet, and exercise. The drastic difference noticed in the US-England
survey added wealth as another definite factor. It reduces stress, which
is one of the biggest problems for health. People with funds can also
travel to hospitals and pay for treatments that maintain a good quality
of life.
4-Wealthy Parents Cheat For Their Kids
In 2019, the authorities closed down a scam. Before the feds got wind
of the crime, times were profitable. Parents paid a stiff bribe to
guarantee a place at elite universities for their children. Altogether,
nearly $6.5 million were paid to the scammers. Two of the parents caught
with their hand in the cookie jar were actresses Lori Loughlin and
Felicity Huffman.
Moral psychologists were not surprised. The wealthy often live
through their children’s achievements. Additionally, the rich are
increasingly experiencing class angst. More people are gaining access to
their exclusive world and seeing the lower-income kids swarm elite
institutions is a bitter pill to swallow.
Many elites believe they are better than everyone else. They deserve
the first slice of the pie. This entitlement drives their unethical
choices, which is then justified in some way. In the bribery case, the
parents used the excuse that they were “helping” their child.
3-Some Believe Poor People Are Happier
People with higher incomes have a curious blind spot. Some think that
lower-income individuals are actually happier. Anyone with an empty
piggy bank knows the opposite is true. To be fair to the blind spot, it
was pulled from a small survey. The 2007 questionnaire excluded men for
some reason too. But the bottom line was that most of the wealthier
women believed that the rest of the population experienced less stress.
The reason? The top earners viewed themselves as busier.
This is a very limited view of what causes stress. But the survey was
backed (to a degree) by other social experiments. They suggested the
rich sometimes prefer a rosy view of reality to feel less guilty about
their privileges. The less moral outrage they feel, the less motivation
there is to help others. This could explain why people with the
financial clout to change the world do nothing.
2-They Pay Less Attention To Others
Most people tend to feel invisible around the rich and powerful. As
it turns out, this feeling is not their imagination. The upper class has
a habit of ignoring those around them. More specifically, anyone who is
beneath them socially and financially.
In 2016, scientists lied through their teeth to volunteers. In two
separate experiments, they were told that they were either testing new
technology or playing a memory game. The fibbing was necessary. They
could hardly tell the richer volunteers that they were being studied for
this unusual trait.
One group wore smart-glasses that recorded everything they saw. While
being under the impression of testing the device, each volunteer walked
down a street. The affluent ones spend less time looking at passersby
from lower classes. Higher-class participants also struggled with the
memory game because they failed to pay attention to images showing
faces.
The upper crust might not realize how often they do this. Humans pay
attention to threats or potential threats. To the elite, the lower
classes are not a danger nor rewarding. In other words, nothing
interesting to look at.
1-They Overestimate Their Worth
There is nothing wrong with having self-confidence. But people from
affluent families might overestimate their abilities. Even worse, others
believe them. The consequences only serve the perky rich person. They
get ahead in job interviews despite that other people are equally
capable. Those who fall for their confidence might also later realize
that they hired the wrong person.
This was the conclusion of scientists who studied loan applications
and job interviews. Both included tests where wealthier applicants
thought they did great. They actually performed average. Those with
lower incomes were more in tune with their own scores—but it failed to
give them the edge.
As mentioned earlier, the elites’ confidence impressed the
money-lenders and hiring agents. This is a problem. Such people offer
better chances to others. If they fall for overconfidence in applicants
who believe they rock, then this could explain why those with class and
confidence issues fall behind, despite being as just as capable.
Bruce
Lee is a film and martial arts legend known for his lightning quick
fighting style, his grunts and facial expression he made while fighting,
his pithy philosophical statements and more. He changed the film
industry in Hong Kong and brought Kung Fu into Western popular culture.
He
was a man of intense energy, with huge ambitions, who pushed his body
farther than it ever wanted to go in order to reach new heights. He
sadly died at a young age, leaving the world wondering what else he
would have accomplished if he was given more time.
There
are many fascinating facts about Bruce Lee. In this post, I mention 43
of them. They were all acquired while reading the biography, Bruce Lee: Fighting Spirit by Bruce Thomas. It is a book that was entertaining, informative, and easy to read. I highly recommend it.
**Please note that we are assuming that the author of the biography was correct with their research.**
I
hope you enjoy the following facts about Bruce Lee. There are videos
included in this post. I apologize if the videos are no longer showing
up, we are not the ones hosting them on Youtube and we have no control
over them.
1. Bruce Lee’s father was an opera singer for the Hong Kong Cantonese Opera. (10)
2. Bruce Lee’s birth story (11)
Bruce
Lee was born on November 27th, 1940 — “according to the Chinese zodiac,
the Year of the Dragon” — in San Francisco, California, because his
mother had been accompanying his father while he toured across the
United States with the opera.
“To
confuse any potentially unfriendly spirits, the child was given a
girl’s name, Sai Fon (Small Phoenix) and one of his ears were pierced.
Grace Lee soon renamed her new son Jun Fan (Return Again) because she
had an intuition that he would one day return to his birthplace.”
The
name Bruce Lee came about because the supervising doctor “nicknamed the
boy Bruce and anglicized his family name to Lee.” His family wouldn’t
call him by the name “Bruce Lee” until he was a teenager.
3.
Bruce’s sister, Agnes, was the one who first started calling him
“Little Dragon,” a nickname that stuck with him in Asia throughout his
life. (13–14)
4. He never went into a swimming pool after a traumatic experience in his youth. (14)
When
Bruce was young, he pushed his sister Phoebe into a swimming pool as a
joke, and she responded by holding his head under water until he
promised never to do it again. From then on, he never went into a
swimming pool again.
5. Bruce Lee was a child actor in Hong Kong. (14–15)
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6. Bruce Lee started on his journey of learning martial arts when he was thirteen, which is when he began learning Wing Chun from Yip Man. (19)
Sadly, his training with Yip Man didn’t end on a high note.
Yip
Man was a traditionalist who didn’t believe Wing Chun should be taught
to Westerners. After a while, some students found out that Bruce had
German ancestors (from his mother’s side) and told Yip Man about it. Yip
Man was okay with it because of his respect for Bruce, but the other
students demanded that Bruce not be allowed to train there, so Bruce
decided to leave. (29)
7.
When he was seventeen years old, he won a boxing tournament put on by
twelve Hong Kong schools even though he had no formal training in
boxing. (29–30)
8.
Bruce Lee emigrated to the United States right before he was eighteen
so he could claim American citizenship before the option lapsed, which
he was able to do because he was born in San Francisco. (31–32)
The city he arrived at was San Francisco, the city his mother had predicted he would return to one day.
9.
Bruce ended up moving in with family friends in Seattle, Washington. He
enrolled in a vocational school so he could earn a high school diploma,
which would make him eligible to attend the University of Washington.
(36–40)
10.
After a martial arts demonstration he put on, he started teaching
martial arts to a select group of students who were interested in the
form he practiced; a form they had never seen before. (42–49)
Some
of his students were already highly skilled in fighting, such as James
DeMille and Jesse Glover. James had been a heavyweight boxing champion
for the Air Force and Jesse was a black belt in Judo, but even with
their expertise, they wanted to learn from Bruce because they had never
seen someone with his talent and style of fighting.
11.
During the summer of 1961 (a few months after starting at the
University of Washington), Bruce paid for a business license and
officially opened a martial arts school called the Jun Fan Gung Fu
Institute. He was only 20 years old. (51–52)
12. One reason for the change of Gung Fu to Kung Fu in America. (58)
Bruce
met, and became friends with a man named James Lee who was an “author
of several books on the fighting arts of the Orient, karate and kung fu.
Bruce asked why’d he chosen to spell it ‘kung fu’ rather than the
traditional Cantonese ‘gung fu.’ James replied that since most
American’s didn’t know Chinese pronunciation he felt that his spelling
would make it more accessible and marketable in the US.”
13.
He dated a girl named Amy Sanbo for three years and asked her to marry
him multiple times, even though she kept rejecting him. The last time
was in the summer of 1963, before he was to return to Hong Kong to visit
his family. She said no and they went on their separate ways. (56–66)
14. He had a great sense of humor.
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I
decided to add this one because I wanted to share the following story
since I think it is hilarious. There are other stories in the biography
about him having a sense of humor or being a practical joker too, but
the one below makes me chuckle.
It
is a story Doug Palmer shared about Bruce Lee, “He used to act like a
geek and let a street punk goad him, then when the punk swung, Bruce
would block it awkwardly and snap at the punk’s groin, incapacitating
him with a blow that appeared to be an accident. As the punk rolled in
pain, Bruce would cover his mouth with his hand and titter effeminately,
then walk off.
‘A person can accept getting beaten by someone who is
stronger or bigger than he is,’ Bruce would explain, ‘but if he thinks
he’s been beaten by a fairy, he’ll be pissed off for the rest of his
life.’” (68)
15.
Bruce Lee became circumcised at the age of twenty-two while he was
visiting Hong Kong because his father suddenly wanted Bruce to be
circumcised. (69)
16.
He didn’t have to sign up for the draft because he was deemed
physically unacceptable by the army because of an undescended testicle.
(70)
17.
Bruce left school at the University of Washington and moved to Oakland
in June 1964 so he could open up a martial arts institute with James
Lee. (74)
18. Had a shotgun wedding to Linda Emery. (75–76)
Bruce
returned to Seattle on August 12th, 1964 and secretly married Linda who
was pregnant, using the wedding ring of James Lee’s wife, which she had
let him borrow.
19. Brandon Lee was born on February 1, 1965. (83)
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20. How his first screen test in Hollywood came about. (83–86)
Bruce
did a kung fu demonstration in Long Beach at a karate tournament in
1964. A Beverly Hills salon owner, Jay Sebring, was in the audience and
was impressed with what he saw from Bruce. One of the salon owner’s
clients, who was a tv producer, was getting a haircut and mentioned that
he was looking for someone to play the part of Charlie Chan’s son. Jay
suggested Bruce Lee, and the producer listened and Bruce Lee ended up
getting a screen test for the role. (83–86)
A
part of the screen test is below. It is incredible how fast and precise
Bruce Lee moves without hitting the other man in the video.
21. Charlie Chan was shelved, but the same producer offered Bruce the role of Kato in a new television series called The Green Hornet. (87)
22. He started to have severe back pain in the months before him and his family were to move to LA, and before the shooting of The Green Hornet. The back pain would be an on and off again issue for the rest of his life. (88–89)
23. The Green Hornet
was the first time that Kung Fu had been seen in the West, besides in
movie theaters in Chinatown districts. It should also be noted that
Bruce had to slow down his fight movements because they became a blur
while being filmed, and the show also used slow motion to play the fight
scenes so they could capture the full effect of Bruce Lee’s skill.
(90–93)
24. Bruce Lee and Dan Insonato coined the term and started the fighting philosophy, “Jeet Kune Do.” (96–100)
25. Many people considered Bruce Lee to have an anger issue. (mentioned throughout the book)
26. The famous actor Steve McQueen was one of Bruce Lee’s celebrity pupils. (100–101)
Some
of his other notable pupils were Kareem Abdul Jabar, James Coburn,
Roman Polanski, Stirling Silliphant, Joe Hyams, Tom Tannenbaum, Mike
Stone, Chuck Norris, Bob Wall, Joe Lewis, and Mito Uyehara. (300)
27. Stirling Silliphant,
a famous screenwriter who was training under Bruce, helped Bruce get
bit parts in television shows, and helped him snag his first acting gig
in a feature length film in America; a small role in the film Marlowe. (110–113)
28.
He had financial problems because of his spending. Though he was
struggling to meet his mortgage payments on his new house, he decided to
buy a new Porsche and went racing with Steve McQueen along Mullohand
Drive. (114)
29. Linda had their second child, Shannon, on April 19th, 1969. (118)
30.
In 1969, Bruce “damaged a sacral nerve and was experiencing a severe
muscle spasm.” For weeks he was sidelined on his bed as the bills piled
up and stress mounted on him. It would lead him to write his famous “My
Definite Chief Aim.” (119–120)
His
definite chief aim was, “I, Bruce Lee, will be the first highest-paid
Oriental superstar in the United States. In return I will give the most
exciting performance and render the best of quality in the capacity of
an actor. Starting 1970, I will achieve world fame and from then onwards
till the end of 1980 I will have in my possession $10,000,000. I will
live the way I please and achieve inner harmony and happiness.” (120)
After writing this, he started to train and teach again even though he was still in severe pain.
31. He didn’t know he was becoming a star in Asia because of The Green Hornet. (124–131)
Bruce had secured a role in a new television pilot called Longstreet
and while he waited for it to start filming, he went to Hong Kong to
“arrange for his mother to come and live in the US.” Upon arrival, he
was greeted by multiple reporters and was requested to appear on talk
shows because of his role of Kato. His new found fame in Asia was a
surprise to him. (124–125)
The
new found fame lead him to search for future film ventures in Hong
Kong. He signed a deal with Raymond Chow to make two feature films in
Asia. He would return to Asia after filming his role in Longstreet.
“The
Big Boss’s budget was less than $100,000 which, at the time, wouldn’t
have paid for a sixty-second TV commercial in the US.” There wasn’t much
of a script for the film, as was common in Hong Kong films during that
time period, and they improvised as they went along and shot very
quickly.
A
random fact about the film is that the prostitutes in the film were
actual prostitutes, besides one of them, who was an actress. This same
thing would happen again in Bruce Lee’s last film.
The film was a huge success in Hong Kong. “Within three weeks of its release, The Big Boss smashed all box office records, earning over $HK3 million.” (137)
33. Fist of Fury
was the film that started the association of nunchakas with Bruce Lee.
The film’s success would also change Bruce Lee and the Hong Kong film
industry. (138–146)
His second film in Hong Kong, Fist of Fury, was filmed in six weeks on a budget of $100,000. It would end up breaking The Big Boss’s box office record in four weeks.
The nunchakas had been used by Bruce Lee briefly in The Green Hornet, but it was his use of them in Fist of Fury
that cemented the association of him with the weapons. In the short
video below, near the end, he uses the nunchakas to brutal effect.
After
the film, Bruce decided he wanted to create his own production company,
so he formed Concord Productions with Raymond Chow. He decided he
wanted to write and direct the films he was in, and he wanted to receive
a split of the profits. This sent shockwaves through the Hong Kong film
industry because everyone involved in the film process in the past,
including actors, had been poorly paid except for the producers.
The
result of Bruce Lee demanding this caused other people in the film
industry to demand better pay. It forever changed the way the Hong Kong
film industry worked.
34. Bruce Lee wrote, produced, directed, and starred in Way of the Dragon.
He also scouted the locations, cast it, chose the wardrobe, and
choreographed the fight scenes. Essentially, he did almost everything
for the film. (150)
Some
other random facts about the film was that it was the first Hong Kong
film to be shot in Europe, Bruce “played percussion on the music for the
soundtrack,” Bruce “spent over forty-five hours on his fight scene with
Chuck Norris,” and the film would break the box office record he had
just set with Fist of Fury within three weeks. (151–152, 168)
35. Around the time of Way of the Dragon
the Hong Kong press voted Bruce Lee “Worst-Dressed Actor of the Year”
because he often liked to wear silk suits and other elaborate outfits.
(156)
36. Bruce heard that Kareem Abdul Jabbar was in Hong Kong, and he arranged some action scenes to be filmed with him for Game of Death even though there was no script yet for the movie. (159)
37. Enter the Dragon would be Bruce Lee’s only starring role in a film that was financed by a United States company.
38. All the issues on the set of Enter the Dragon. (171–181)
The
director of the film and Bruce butted heads. Bruce had trouble
pronouncing certain letters at time, so supposedly, the director of the
film asked the screenwriter “to change the name of the British agent in
the script to fuck Bruce up.” (171)
There
was a shortage of translators on the set, so there was difficulty in
communication between the American and Chinese crews. The Americans
weren’t familiar with the way that Chinese films worked, and vice versa,
which caused conflict.
Bruce
was extremely stressed with everything and went missing from the set.
The film started shooting and went on shooting for at least two weeks
without him.
Actual
fights happened on the set between stuntmen and extras hired from Triad
families. The prisoners in the film were actual derelicts from the
streets of Hong Kong. The prostitutes on the set were also real
prostitutes and earned more than most of the crew, causing ill will on
the set. The actor Peter Archer almost drowned.
Bruce
had to get stiches on his finger because he had sliced open his finger
during a take of the fight scene with Bob Wall because they used real
glass bottles, instead of fake ones.
As you can probably imagine, it was an extremely stressful film to make, and sadly was Bruce Lee’s last film.
39. Bruce Lee ordered a gold Rolls Royce Corniche in anticipation of the success of Enter the Dragon, but he would die before the release of the film and the arrival of the car. (183)
40. The studio changed the title to Blood and Steel, which Bruce disputed, and then they changed it to Han’s Island. He threatened to never work for them again if they didn’t change it back. They eventually set it back to Enter the Dragon. (187)
41.
On July 20th, 1973, Bruce Lee went unconscious while in the apartment
of the actress Betty Ting Pei. She had given him a equagesic headache
pill, which he took before taking a nap. She was the last person to see
him while he was conscious. (192–193)
Bruce
had been having health problems leading up his death. In May of that
year, he had passed out and been rushed to the hospital, where he would
end up being diagnosed with cerebral edema. (184–190)
There
are many rumors and different explanations of what caused his death: a
reaction to the equagesic pill, him having eaten cannabis, being killed
by the Triad and more. I’m not going to go into them. The book does talk
about all the crazy theories though, so check it out if you are
interested in that kind of stuff.
If
you are wondering who Betty Ting Pei was? She was a woman who had acted
with Bruce in some of his films, and according to the biography, he had
an affair with her. (214–215)
42.
He was buried in Lake View Cemetery in Seattle, Washington. His son,
Brandon Lee, would be buried in the same cemetery after Brandon died in a
tragic accident while filming The Crow.
43. A young Jackie Chan had a super brief cameo in Enter the Dragon. He played a guard who jumps into the frame and grabs Bruce from behind, and then Bruce promptly kills him.
I
hope you enjoyed these fascinating facts about Bruce Lee. He is a film
legend that lived an interesting life. If you are looking to learn more
about Bruce Lee, then check out Bruce Lee: Fighting Spirit by Bruce Thomas, which is where all of these facts were found. The stories about Bruce’s life are worth reading.
Thanks for reading these facts. I hope you enjoyed.
We are certain that you get envious and your heart pinches every time
you find on your feed a picture of any couple celebrating their x years
of being together. It makes you question whether there is something
wrong with you that none of your relationships last more than a couple
of months. First of all, you have to stop blaming yourself right this
minute. It takes effort and dedication from both the partners to keep a
relationship going. Having said that, it isn’t rare that your partner
decides to break up with you all of a sudden. You didn’t see that
coming. You two are out together and they just blurt out. They opt to
cut all ties with you and don’t even bother telling you why they feel
separating from you is just what they need. You wrack your brain for
days trying to understand what could have led them to make this move. This article answers just that. One or more of these could be the
explanation for your break up. It will also help you in understanding
your current or future partner better. Without further ado, let’s check
out the article now.
Egoist Partner
An egoist person can never make a good partner. If you are that
self-centered, how are you ever going to want to know a person, their
hobbies, likes, and dislikes? You can’t fall in love with someone
without learning of and remembering every detail about them. Such people
only date for want of a partner to show-off to their friends or family.
Emotionally Ghosted
You are supposed to be your partner’s pillar of strength during
trying times. If you are too busy with your own life and never care to
provide emotional support to your lover, they might have to seek out for
it from someone else.
Love Language Hurdles
Different people follow different love languages. For some conferring
gifts may be their way of showing affection while some may seek
spending quality time together the appropriate way of expressing
concern. There are individuals who like to pen down their feelings, then
there are ones who emote their feelings through their acts and
gestures. It is mandatory that you get what love languages your partner
adopts.
Complaining Partner
We can bet any amount of money that everyone has problems in their
lives, which they are persistently trying to battle with. When you are
complaining about your life with your partner, you only add to their
struggles in some way or the other. This is so because the moment they
listen to an issue, their mind begins chalking out resolutions which
are, most of the time, not feasible. So, it’s best that you solve them
on your own.
Misunderstood Stress
What you may comprehend as your partner’s lack of interest in you
might actually be their workload stress. During stress people do behave
differently, are easily annoyed, or show an unwillingness to partake in
any activity. You mustn’t overanalyze and make assumptions. Allowing
them some space to deal with it would be the right move for a situation
of that sort.
Misunderstood Stonewalling
Your dear one may have stonewalled you due to unforeseen cropping up
of troubles in their family or for any other reason, which they may not
be comfortable sharing with you. Do not pester them to reply to every
text of yours or lose your cool if they choose to remain quiet.
Policing
Freedom, equality, liberty, and respect, are demanded by people of
today’s age. No one can tolerate being told what to do, what to wear
when to go out, or when to be back home. This is your life partner, not
your slave that you impose restrictions on them and think they will take
it with a smile. Being single would be hands down preferred by anyone
over a controlling partner. You have to either accept their way of
living or leave.
Totalitarian Love
By totalitarian love, we are referring to a partner who, after
getting into a relationship, wants you and only you. They make it seem
like they never even had a life before they found you. A lover who is
too clingy and expects attention round the clock cannot be tolerated for
too long. And why would anyone want to continue with such a person.
Relationships don’t mean bearing one another.
Sexual Incompatibility
If your libido doesn’t match with that of your partner’s, you may be
left feeling dissatisfied or irritated. Stress, fear of poor
performance, non-acceptance of your looks could be a few reasons behind
your abhorrence for physical intimacy.
No Intimacy
There are two types of intimacy – physical and emotional, both
equally important to keep a relationship alive. Every person has certain
needs which can be met by none other than the person they are dating.
It could be just a desire for being physically intimate or a longing for
someone close to talk to about how their day went. If you come home
late every night being too exhausted to even eat or show no interest in
talking to your partner, don’t blame them if they leave you for someone
more engaging.
Carry-over of Past Trauma
There is a big difference between learning from your past mistakes
and carrying-over your past experiences. It is unfortunate that many
times people fail to make a distinction between the two. If your
previous partner had been sleeping with your BFF behind your back or
lying to you throughout, it doesn’t mean that your current one must be
doing the same. Every person is different. Learn to let go of your
suspicions else your love and relationship will suffer.
Mental Health
Your love life is sure to be impacted if you suffer from any kind of
mental illness. For a relationship to stay strong, mental health is much
more needed than physical fitness. Your brain has a bearing on your
actions, reactions, temperament, and self-control. The biggest problem
is that many people don’t even realize they have a mental health issue
and require medical aid.
Different Point in Life’s Blueprint
It could happen that one partner might have become financially stable
and all set to tie the knot, while the other one might still have many
aspirations to achieve. This can stagnate the relationship and draw the
two people apart. You both have to talk and work it out if ending up
being committed to each other is what you want at the end of the day.
Substance Abuse
Bad habits of any sort are a major turn off. Hence, it’s advisable
that you nib them in the bud. Your control over your mind and your
partner’s addiction to you are directly related. Your substance abuse
might be causing harm not just to you, but also to your surroundings and
those around you. You can never grab the eyeballs of your crush by
chain-smoking or collapsing after being heavily drunk.
Empty Promises
Failing to show up on a dinner date is nothing to freak out over. But
it is a bad sign if you do it more often than it can be understandable.
And, if possible let them know beforehand that you might be late or
might not be able to make it. You have to respect and value their time.
Fading Sexual Attraction
During the initial phase of your relationship, you put in a lot of
effort to ensure that you appear attractive and irresistible to your
partner. Even your conversations with them are flirtatious and
fun-filled. However, as it progresses, you tend to become more relaxed
and unveil your lazy, boring, and not-so-appealing side. This could lead
their attention to drift to somebody else. Don’t complain later that it
wasn’t in your hands.
Lack of Proper Communication
Active communication with your partner is one of the necessities for
maintaining your closeness to them. You could talk about how your day
went, discuss your future plans, and the like. Taking even half an hour
out of your hectic day and having a light, but meaningful conversation
with them over a cup of hot chocolate can do wonders for your
relationship, as well as for your state of mind.
Insecurity
Insecurity can be endured to a certain degree, but not beyond that.
If you are insecure, you unknowingly give signals to your partner that
you do not have full faith in them and you fear they may dump you for
someone better. If they want to leave you, they will do it anyway.
However, you being insecure will plainly give them a reason why you
can’t be their ideal partner.
Craving for Commitment
If your beloved one isn’t prepared for commitment, then your constant
nagging will only compel them to call it quits with you. Give them time
and space to get to know you and figure out if and how they want to
take it further with you. Your desperateness can make them lose interest
in you while your indifference will make you all the more desired.
Cheating
Cheating is the reason for the crushing of most of the relationships.
This is so because it is the hardest to condone. Cheating shatters a
person’s trust and reliance in you and without these no relationship can
survive. They gave you their heart and you broke it. You have no right
to ask for forgiveness.
Incompatible Priorities
The problem of clashing priorities is faced by every couple out
there. It has nothing to do with how crazy they are for each other or
what phase of relationship they are in. Did you not see your parents
fighting? It’s all right and totally normal. Your partner might be
putting you first, but you might accord your career the highest
priority. This is nothing to argue over. A tad bit of maturity is all
that’s needed to tackle such issue.
Forever Suspicious
Trust is the building block for any relationship. You can’t expect
your partner to be calm and easy-going if you are constantly keeping a
watch on every activity of theirs or wanting to check their phone every
other day. If you know they love you then trust them with all your heart
and mind. Even if you are certain of being two-timed, accost them and
ask directly instead of becoming a part-time detective.
Religious Differences
Your religion and cultural background do have an influence on your
personality and the way you look at and approach situations. If you and
your partner follow different religions, your beliefs are bound to be
distinct and, at times, could be contradictory leading to heated
arguments. This shouldn’t be a major problem if you both make genuine
attempts to understand the other one and be ready to compromise.
Vulnerability Stalemate
You must be wondering what this vulnerability stalemate is. It occurs
when neither of you want to be the first one to apologize or to admit
that you are hurt by your partner’s act. You do it out of fear of coming
across as vulnerable or emotionally weak. Couples also expect from each
other that their partner should be able to read their minds and act
accordingly. This just complicates things, making them difficult to sort
out. Expressing your needs and desires and being open can relieve both
of you of all the stress and unwanted drama.
Abuse
Abuse of any kind and to any extent must not be tolerated at any
cost. If your relationship ended because of your partner being verbally
or physically abusive, you should thank your stars and be happy you are
no longer with that person. You are supposed to be at peace with your
lover and not scared or traumatized. And, if you were the one inflicting
abuse on your ex, you seriously need to change if you don’t want to die
single.
It must be clear to you by now why your ex ended it with you.
However, this doesn’t mean you should start regretting your decisions.
You cannot go back in time and change anything. Just keep these in mind
next time you fall in love with someone.
A job
is something all of us have to do to get by. Those at the top tell
other people what to do. Everyone else has to obey in order to take care
of pesky things like rent and food. Not everyone is cut out for all the
positions out there, though most of us try to do our best with the one
we have.
Then there are the weird jobs that you’ve never heard of. In fact,
you probably wouldn’t know where to begin if you got one of them.
Nevertheless, all of them exist and are consistently looking for
applicants—if you know where to look. These aren’t run-of-the-mill,
nine-to-five affairs. Instead, they require specific sets of skills that
you can only obtain once you get them.
“I wish I could be paid for sleeping”
is something most of us have thought at some point in our lives, mostly
right after we have to wake up to go to work. It makes sense, too, as
sleeping is amazing. But what if we were to tell you that you could
actually get paid to sleep? In some cases, you’ll earn a lot (depending
on where you sleep).
A professional sleeper is a serious occupation and provides services
that are required in many modern industries. Although it’s not your
typical full-time job, you could earn a sizable income if you land the right gigs.
From researchers (who regularly need sleep testers for various
experiments) to mattress brands that need sleepers to test their
products and artists who require sleeping subjects, professional
sleeping could be a lucrative career if you advertise yourself well
enough.
When you train to be an astronaut,
one of the first things you have to learn is how to maneuver yourself
in a gravity-free environment. Although it may not sound like a big
deal, you’d be surprised how difficult it is.
Inherently, our bodies are trained to only work in gravity. It takes a
long time just to get used to a gravity-free environment, let alone be
able to engage in day-to-day functions in it.
The people who impart that training are known as parabolic experts,
one of the most coveted and highly skilled occupations in the
going-into-space industry. In fact, only nine people in the world are
qualified to do it.
First, they must become excellent at free-falling in an aircraft (aka a vomit comet in casual NASA
lingo). This is the only way to simulate a microgravity environment on
Earth for training potential astronauts to go on missions. It’s not
their job to actually go into space, even though they’re a crucial part
of nearly every space mission.
The death
of a loved one can be difficult to deal with, and everyone copes in his
own way. Some people mourn for days before getting their lives back to
normal. Others shut themselves away until they can be around people
again.
Still others take it one step further and get professional mourners
to do their grieving. Although it may sound weird to the rest of us,
these mourners are dedicated professionals in quite a few parts of the
world.
Professional mourning has been a thing for thousands of years in many
regions, including Africa, China, and ancient Egypt. However, China is
mostly where it’s still big business.
The job consists of showing up to the funeral and staging a
believable session of mourning—complete with physically breaking down
and wailing. This may sound alien
to the rest of us, but it’s completely normal in Chinese culture. These
pros can also earn quite a bit depending on how good they are.
7- White Hat Hackers
With almost everything from traffic to government databases to supply
line inventories of big corporations now operating through the Internet,
hacking is an increasingly serious threat for almost everyone. This is
especially true of hackers in countries where the Internet isn’t
regulated much.
As a result, there’s an equally high demand for good hackers who know the basics of getting into networks without being detected. They expose vulnerabilities in high-value targets like government databases.
Known as white hat hackers (as opposed to the regular black hat
hackers), these individuals are hired by corporations and governments
around the world to do their best to get into the employers’ networks.
If you’re really good at it, you may earn a fortune for doing a contract
job, with a chance to be hired by your client at the end of it.
The best part?
Absolutely no one will ask how you got those skills in the first
place as long as you’ve never used them to do actual harm. To qualify,
you simply need to get really good at hacking. Just make sure you don’t
practice on live targets, as that is illegal.
6- Iceberg Movers
Potable drinking water is already on the brink of running out for the whole world. We may not hear much about it because the crisis isn’t as dire in the loudest parts of the world yet.
Many countries are now looking to Earth’s natural ice reserves for
help. They are devising plans to haul entire icebergs from the South
Pole to their shores to harvest water. The job is given to iceberg
moving companies, where you can apply to work if you’re up for it.
Iceberg moving may sound impossible—like mountain relocation or beach
stealing. However, many Middle Eastern countries are already grappling
with serious water scarcity issues, so they’re willing to give it a
shot.
Some iceberg
towing companies are already on their way to get the first icebergs to
some of those countries. Middle Eastern governments are also hoping that
huge floating icebergs off the shores of their countries may serve as
tourist attractions, too.
Many current jobs have never existed before, including that of a
futurist. If it sounds like someone who sits around all day and makes
predictions like a fortune-teller, it absolutely is—except that the predictions have to be backed by data.
It is one of the more accessible jobs on this list (though not for
scientific fields). In fact, anyone can apply to be a futurist as many
New Age firms are starting to see the importance of the position.
A futurist’s role is to study current data
and make reasonable predictions about future trends based on that
information. A government may employ a futurist to predict social
changes in order to estimate taxes in the future. An advertising firm
may try to find out what kind of messaging consumers are likely to
respond to 20 years from now.
Depending on your field, a job as a futurist can be as awesome as it
sounds or just entail data crunching all day like your old job.
4- Food Stylist
Over the years, food
advertising has come a long way. If you’ve ever seen a food ad and
thought “wow, that looks good,” it’s not because that’s how it’s
supposed to look. Instead, a highly specialized type of professional
called a food stylist made the food look good for the camera.
If “food stylist” sounds like a joke, we assure you that it’s
absolutely not. You can go to your local employment listings website and
find a posting for one of these right now.
The job is not easy to do, either. Apparently, styling food is an art
form that you master after years of persistent practice, which also
involves know-how of photography and videography.
If you do get your foot in the door and become a food stylist for a
local firm, you may work your way up and someday get to style food for
the big brands. Needless to say, that pays quite well.
LEGO
bricks transcend age, sex, borders, and race. No matter who you are or
what you do, a LEGO set is all you need to push aside everything else
and spend the next four hours trying to build something that you’ll give
up on anyway. And that’s okay. A big part of the company’s success is
being able to engage the inherent builder in all of us, even if we’re
not that good at the job.
That doesn’t mean that everyone’s bad at it. We all had that one kid
in class who could build intricate structures out of LEGO sets and
simply mesmerize us. If you were one of those kids and have always
wanted to do this for a living, you can get paid tons of money for it.
Known as LEGO master builders, these guys are employed by the LEGO
Group to create those huge structures built of LEGO bricks that
occasionally go viral on the Internet. If playing with LEGO pieces has
been your dream all along, you could definitely give this a shot.
However, you’d have to be really good at it to even stand a chance.
2- Shark Tank Cleaner
Most people visiting a shark
tank (not the TV show) have a great time, maybe have a snack or two,
and then return home. However, the curious ones look at the whole setup
and think, “I wonder who cleans that?”
There’s no way to keep the artificially created ecosystem healthy without someone actually going into the tank and manually cleaning it. In fact, there are shark tank cleaners tasked with doing exactly that.
The job is dangerous because the sharks are always in the aquarium.
You can’t just make an expensive secondary tank to house the animals
until the cleaning is done.
However, the cleaning isn’t what makes this a badass job. It’s
getting used to being around sharks that are already angry at all humans
for keeping them in captivity. The cleaners have to learn shark
behavior and be good at diving—as well as knowing when to get out—to
even be considered for the role. They spend around 30–40 hours in the
tank per week as a part of their job.
1- Odor Judge
Smell
is an important sense, which is apparent by how many products rely on
it to make sales. From soaps to deodorants to candles, how a product
smells is as much a part of its commercial success as its appearance.
So, who is in charge of making sure that things smell the way they
should?
You guessed it (presumably from the title of this entry). Odor
judges determine the best smell for a particular product. Obviously,
they have to go through plenty of bad odors, like those from armpits, to
come up with a deodorant to counter the smell.
It may sound like a horrible job, but it’s also a crucial one. They
also deal with issues like whether a particular type of seafood is
contaminated by a nearby oil spill. Of course, you must have a keen
sense of smell to qualify for this job, and it may end up paying quite
well if you work at a large organization.